If you’re in problem-mode, problems tend to jump out at you.
If you’re in another mode, different things do.
Same life. Different focus.
We tend to notice more of what we’re already looking for.
So when we’re coming from a problem-focused place, life can start to look full of problems.
That doesn’t mean everything is a problem.
It means that’s the stance we’re meeting life from.
“A light bulb has one job.
A human life doesn’t.”
From what stance am I meeting life right now?
You don’t have to stay in auto-pilot
Most of us move through life from a familiar stance without realising it.
We approach things the same way we always have, solving, pushing through, analysing, fixing, or managing what’s in front of us. Often that works. Sometimes it doesn’t. This page is about noticing the stance you’re already in before you decide what to do next. Not to change it, but to restore choice. Because not everything in life needs to be met from the same orientation.
That’s pre-conceptual orientation.
This way of working sits within a long tradition of thought that looks at how experience is met before it’s explained or fixed.
“We don’t just do life.
We meet it from somewhere.”
“Look at how life is being met before you interpret it.”